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Katie, I am sure you'll do what's best for your girls. You are a wonderful mom and Maddie and Olivia are very lucky girls.

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07-19-2020 06:45 PM
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I know you'll be able to handle it Ms Kaitie. You know what you're doing.

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07-19-2020 09:17 PM
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very cool <3
07-22-2020 08:21 PM
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(07-19-2020 09:46 AM)Travis Wrote:  I also meant to ask, now that you are stepmom to Olivia, how do you feel about providing discipline to her when her dad is not around? Has that been discussed and all agreed upon?

Once again, congratulations!

Travis

Yes, I know he can and will handle it when he's here, and anything huge (like belt worthy) would almost 100% definately be him. I'm not thrilled, nervous about it, etc, but it doesn't feel unnatural or whatever. He's basically my Dad.

Meanwhile, I haven't gotten a spanking from anyone since the late night one mom talked about elsewhere on the forum. At my age it mostly isn't as common for me (though I did have a streak during early days of quarantine). Dad has warned me a couple of times, but that's about it.

As for Olivia calling mom mom, and me calling Troy Dad, I think its helped by a few things. Yes she's Olivia's stepmom, but Olivia's bio mom has been dead for the better part of a decade. I don't mean that crassly, nor do I mean it to suggest that everyone in that situation would call their steppparent mom (many understandably wouldn't). But it still makes it different than treating your stepmom like a 100% bio mom while you have a bio mom alive and active in your life. As for me, as you all know I grew up with my dad not really in my life, and then a very unstable bio mom, which eventually led Kaitie to adopt me before my bio mom later passed.....I've kind of craved a normal family dynamic my whole life, and now I have it, so bloodlines aren't my major concentration
08-11-2020 10:42 AM
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Meggy
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Awww happy for you Maddie I totally understand craving a normal family dynamic. Glad you have it now. <3
08-11-2020 11:11 AM
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Glad things are going so well for you! It sounds like it's been a really positive transition. Have you moved yet or are you in the throes of organizing and packing everything?

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08-11-2020 03:38 PM
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r u guys moved yet???? did it go ok????
08-12-2020 10:13 PM
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