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Making A Spanking A Positive Experience!
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There is nothing positive about pain or suffering. As a child I was terrified of being spanked and I only felt anger and humiliation after it was over. As a caregiver I promised myself I would make sure the children I disciplined never suffered the humiliation and anger I did. To transcend this you must experience the unconditional love and caring your parents and care givers have for you. It is endless and omnipresent. Nelson Mandela suffered for twenty-seven years in prison yet when he was released from jail he had only love to offer those that incarcerated him. After Jesus was crucified he did not speak of his suffering on the cross but only of his resurrection and the joy and peace that this would bring to the world. Gandhi as he lay dying from an assassin's bullet had only love to give away in the last seconds of his life as that was all he had in him. As a child be grateful for the love your parents have for you and as a parent discipline your child with kindness and compassion and you and your child will transcend the world of suffering and realize the joy and peace of God Himself which is in us all. Merry Christmas!
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Beautifully expressed Garth.
I was blessed by being brought up by parents and other carers who never made me feel humiliated or frightened by a spanking. The atmosphere was calm and I always knew that I was being spanked with loving concern.The spankings certainly were long and left my bottom hot and stinging but the way they were given and the atmosphere made them positive experiences:although I might not have said that while the actual spanking was underway!
I have tried to ensure that ours feel the same about their spankings. Pre spanking talks (not lectures), encouraging the child to cooperate, prayers, making the children understand that the baring of the bottom is as routine a part of spanking as taking off your clothes for a bath, administering spankings carefully, skilfully, thoughtfully and deliberately, giving long spankings rather than shorter harder ones and post spanking hugs are some of the factors which help to make spankings a positive experience for the child.And of course when a spanking is a positive experience for the child it can be also be a positive experience or at least not a negative experience for the parent or carer administering the spanking.

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