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#21
💗💗💗Kat has been mad at me 😔😔😔she seems so nice Kat can u turn into a positive Polly again 💗😔🥰⛄️⛄️⛄️
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#22
Ty Rosie 💗
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#23
I respect ur guys opinions too
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#24
(11-10-2020, 04:50 PM)Meggy Wrote: 💗💗💗Kat has been mad at me 😔😔😔she seems so nice Kat can u turn into a positive Polly again 💗😔🥰⛄️⛄️⛄️

Is everything okay with her and her kids?
I know when I first joined she got upset with me but she told me off and that was it.
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#25
(11-10-2020, 12:11 PM)Addy Wrote: I've been having this convo with a man on the other forum and I don't think we can give credit but never assign blame and have the credit mean anything.
Assigning blame doesn't have to mean assigning guilt. The example I have there is my "aunt" cut her finger and instead of saying a cuss word she went straight to Praise God! She can acknowledge that God allowed her to be harmed and therefore failed to protect her but she has trust that it is all for His greater plan, whatever that plan is.

Lately I've been angry with God but I figure he can handle it and if he can't...well I hope there are beaches wherever he sends me.
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(11-10-2020, 08:12 PM)Scarlette Wrote:
(11-10-2020, 04:50 PM)Meggy Wrote: 💗💗💗Kat has been mad at me 😔😔😔she seems so nice Kat can u turn into a positive Polly again 💗😔🥰⛄️⛄️⛄️

Is everything okay with her and her kids?
I know when I first joined she got upset with me but she told me off and that was it.

idk....shes always liked me I think... I hate making ppl mad at me Undecided esp ppl who've been nice to me.
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#27
(11-10-2020, 10:39 AM)Scarlette Wrote:
(11-10-2020, 03:44 AM)Nash Wrote: I went through hell as a child but I don't blame God. To blame God would mean God specifically wanted me to be abused. I don't believe in that. That absolves the people who abused me of any responsibility for their actions.

I'm sorry about your abuse and I hope my POV doesn't....in any way....cause you to think I am minimizing your experience or way of coping with it....because I am not.

Couldn't you have also....just as correctly.....concluded.....God failed to protect you....he planted you where you were planted....????

Isn't giving credit for the good somehow hollow if we are incapable of giving credit for the bad?
No, because God grants people free will. That's why bad things still happen, we have choices to make good or bad.
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(11-10-2020, 11:35 PM)Nash Wrote:
(11-10-2020, 10:39 AM)Scarlette Wrote:
(11-10-2020, 03:44 AM)Nash Wrote: I went through hell as a child but I don't blame God. To blame God would mean God specifically wanted me to be abused. I don't believe in that. That absolves the people who abused me of any responsibility for their actions.

I'm sorry about your abuse and I hope my POV doesn't....in any way....cause you to think I am minimizing your experience or way of coping with it....because I am not.

Couldn't you have also....just as correctly.....concluded.....God failed to protect you....he planted you where you were planted....????

Isn't giving credit for the good somehow hollow if we are incapable of giving credit for the bad?
No, because God grants people free will. That's why bad things still happen, we have choices to make good or bad.

thats what I was trying to say..
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#29
(11-10-2020, 04:44 PM)Rosie Wrote:
(11-10-2020, 03:44 AM)Nash Wrote: I went through hell as a child but I don't blame God. To blame God would mean God specifically wanted me to be abused. I don't believe in that. That absolves the people who abused me of any responsibility for their actions.

I am sad to heare you went through hell when you was a kid. I honest and true am. Don't you never ask him why? God why me?

I have been wondering about God a lot lately. Why did he make me nasty or something like that. Why didn't he make it so my mom and dad was in love instead of her never getting a boy who would love us in a good way you know? But to then I wouldn't have my second mom and I love her to much to not ever of got her. My free will wanted to help my mom and it wants my second mom to.

How come God let Alexandra become a Alexander or even how come he let me be stupid enough to tell him secrets before he became a he and made me dirty like. Why did he let me believe he brought her in my world to help me learn how to have a personal relationship with God. My free will wanted to be closer to God but the truth is God don't want me.

Do you know my mom died when I was 9. I slept with her that whole entire night since I had a bad dream and I didn't even know she was dead until my grandma got me from summer school. I just told this to my second mom this morning cause I was real ashamed that maybe I should of known and then got her help and maybe then she would still be alive. What kind of a stupid person sleeps with a dead person and don't even know it? She wasn't feeling good a lots of times then so mostly she didn't wake up in the morning so I still should of checked to see if she was breathing or something. Stupid me. Why didn't God give to her a smart kid who maybe would of saved her life for her. My free will didn't want to do something that helped her die you know. That is on God.

I don't think I even want to believe in God no more because I do blame him and it hurts to blame him and I would just rather there wasn't a him and to then nobody has to be scared of dying because then dying would mean nothing but gone.

What I have learned is you can't blame yourself for things that weren't your fault. I could have tried harder to make an adult believe me and gotten out of my situation sooner. But is that really my fault as a scared and abused child? Of course not. And it wasn't your fault with your mom either.

What does blaming God do?
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#30
(11-10-2020, 11:33 PM)Meggy Wrote:
(11-10-2020, 08:12 PM)Scarlette Wrote:
(11-10-2020, 04:50 PM)Meggy Wrote: 💗💗💗Kat has been mad at me 😔😔😔she seems so nice Kat can u turn into a positive Polly again 💗😔🥰⛄️⛄️⛄️

Is everything okay with her and her kids?
I know when I first joined she got upset with me but she told me off and that was it.

idk....shes always liked me I think... I hate making ppl mad at me Undecided esp ppl who've been nice to me.

I'm not mad at you honey.
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